When women start asking about how to find a decent man the song “Looking for Love (In All the Wrong Places)” comes to mind. You may wonder why that is. The answer is pretty simple because part of the reason that women have trouble finding good men is that they ARE looking for them in all the wrong places.
Therefore, to find out where women SHOULD look for decent men, the places you will never find them must first be discussed.If you’re trying to find the love of your life in a bar or nightclub, please think again. These are “meat markets” and people are usually there for one reason: to get laid. This is not how to find a decent man. Men who go to these places are not interested in a true relationship. They only want to have sex and are typically looking for one night stands. So unless that’s what you’re trying to find, skip those places.
You may think that something like a singles cruise is a great way to meet eligible men. This can be possible but it can also be another way of just setting up the scene for couples to have a lot of sex while on the cruise. There may be some men who go on this type of cruise hoping to find a real relationship. But there are just as many who go to see how much sex they can have. So this one is a tossup.
If you’re a religious person and attend a church of some sort, this may be an option in how to find a decent man. However, don’t take it for granted that all single men you meet at church are going to be decent. But it’s common ground to start on.
Online dating sites can be perfect places to find good men. This is not to say that ALL dating sites are good to use, but if you do your research and find the site that is right for YOU, there’s every reason to believe that you can meet a good man through it. Pay attention to what sort of men the sites attract. You may even have to join more than one site until you get it right. But there are more than enough success stories from these sites for it to be encouraging. You can narrow the sites down to what you’re looking for by reading reviews of them. These are helpful when it comes to connecting you with the dating site that offers just what you’re trying to find.