One of the hardest things to do is figure out how to save a relationship that’s falling apart. Many times there doesn’t seem to be a clear cut reason as to why this is happening. You only see that things are going downhill and you can’t seem to stop it.
Even though you may feel that this came out of left field, there were definite signs that things were starting to crumble. Think back and you may remember some of these signs. Maybe there was an argument that was actually more serious than you thought at the time. You may have started noticing a decline in sexual activity between you. There doesn’t seem to be any excitement at seeing each other. It seems that you’re always sniping at each other, and not in a sweet, teasing way. Gradually, things just kind of slid downhill from there.
Now, the first thing you must do in how to save a relationship that’s falling apart is start TALKING to each other again. Schedule it if you have to, but this is the only thing that will get you both working toward a resolution. If it seems that it will help, meet on neutral ground. Go to a quiet little out of the way place where you can sit in a private booth and order a drink while you talk. Do whatever you must do to get this conversation going.
Talk about what is troubling you and listen to what your partner has to say about how things have been going in the relationship recently. If both of you are sensible and reasonable individuals, this should open the door to get things sorted, one way or another. There is always the chance that you may not be able to have this conversation without some intervention. In that case, you may want to try visiting a counselor who specializes in how to save a relationship that’s falling apart. However you choose to do this, the true reason for the rift in your love life needs to come to the surface.If there is still love between the two of you, then talking may be all that’s needed to get started back on the right path. Those reasons that are causing problems can be rectified even if it means you both must compromise. Saving the relationship has to be the most important thing to each of you. When you can say that it is, help is definitely on the way.
If, for some reason, the two of you have grown apart and there is no longer any true love left, it makes more sense to remember the good times and say goodbye.